UNCOVERED THE REAL PROBLEM OF SINGLE LADIES IN NIGERIA, NOT THEIR FAULT
This is not a matter of argument, there are too many ladies
looking for husbands in Nigeria.
If you have ever noticed that there are seemingly more
single ladies in Nigeria than guys, you may need to relax with some chilled
juice because you are not alone with your observation.
In fact, it has called for serious concern in recent times
where the spate seems to be on a fast rise.
Some attribute the improper fraction to the fact that more
females are born daily than males amidst the population explosion.
Sometimes, ladies who think they have all it takes to be
take up the ‘Mrs’ tag are caught in the web of certain things that keep them
with their parents longer than they anticipated.
This brings up the fact that it is not always enough to have
all the qualities required to become a wife as there are some militating
factors that come to play when it’s time to tie the knot.
To this end, deemed it fit to bring to fore some of the
reasons why so many girls are still single despite having attained marriageable
age.
HIGH EXPECTATIONS:
Sometimes a handful of ladies await their potential suitors
with high expectations and end up scaring them away when they eventually
arrive.
Ephemeral things like money, cars shouldn’t form the basis
of choice for a life partner but sadly, a lot of ladies are neck deep into such
expectations and would easily brag about setting such standards for themselves.
ETHNICITY:
The 1914 amalgamation appears to be Nigeria’s bane. The “One
Nigeria” slogan is one of the biggest organised lies of the century as there is
really nothing ‘one’ about the country despite the fact our 57th Independence
Anniversary is only a few months away.
Among the several other factors that stand in the way of
marriage for most girls, ethnicity tops the chart. Most times, it is as a
result of family influence and when some decide to go against the family
standards, they end up stuck and alone with no support from family.
RELIGION:
Majority of the problems encountered in Nigeria today
originated from religious differences which make it safe to conclude that
religion has done more harm than good in the country. Most people believe that
religious compatibility plays a vital role in the choice of life partner and
this is the mentality that has kept more ladies in their parents’ homes till
date.
Until they find a brother who is tongue speaking, fire
fighting prayer warrior, or a 'born again' in their own terms.
POOR ATTITUDE:
Well, like Keith Harrell wrote in his masterpiece, ‘attitude
is everything’. Some girls though ripe for marriage have delectable attitudes
that easily get men on their feet after a first encounter.
Some ladies who are of age just need to improve on their
attitudes so as to attract and embark on the journey of forever with ease. you
mean as a woman you can't shift grounds on issues, and consciously you don't
give a chance for any man to feel like he is your boss, then keep on being your
boss nah.... no wahala.
We are in the 21st century and it’s about time people acted
like they really are abreast with issues.
Certain choices should transcend beyond the archaic
mentality people used to have into something more.
Needless to judge any body or being judgmental we all know
what we need to change in our character.
The truth remains
that after the fun and everything, guys do look a little bit deeper when the
word MARRIAGE comes to play. Even if the guy refuses to look, his friends who
used to adore you, will do a deeper x-ray and please do not say he didnt love
you, he did, but this other one is a life-time serious business.
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