How To Survive Heart Break

Hi All

Some times, the best way to share tips is when you have been there. Oh yes, when it comes to devastating heart break, I have been there! I have seen it, it broke me, it nailed me, it finished me but it made me a better person. I was in a relationship that made me super powerful and super confident. I had a relationship that even made me to open a relationship blog, thinking I was a master of relationship because my partner and I were admired by friends. To me, a life without my partner was simply unimaginable. Unfortunately and fortunately, I suffered a heart break that made me motionless for more than one year. I suffered a heart break that made me lost interest in any thing that has L not to talk of O or V or E! :)

I read a lot about heart break and how to survive it! You no what, they never worked! 

Some of the tips on how to survive heart break I saw were:

• Drink and forget your sorrow
• Date another bae
• Hang out and say to your self 'I deserve better'
• Talk to someone about it
• Watch your favourite movies
• Party here and there
• Work on your self etc

You know, it's so easy to tell someone what to do. So easy to say it. I tried all but none ever worked. 

consequences of Severe Heart break

• I lost my self esteem
• I lost focus
• I became withdrawn
• I took to drinking
• I found my self in different relationships within few months doing silly things :P

Hey, I can go on and on. In summary, heart break is evil. 

Lessons of heart break

• I realized that I should never expect anything from anyone
• There is nothing like a perfect relationship
• Never envy anyone (you could see me outside smiling but you never knew I was brutalized psychologically :)
• You just can't force it but you must try
• We are the reason love seems wicked :)
• Life is a stage

The bitter truth about heart break

Here, I'm talking about severe heart break. There are two bitter truth about severe heart break:

• You just can never ever forget the person...no matter how hard, some how, some where, you will often remember the person
• It can affect your future relationship as you may be dragged into comparing your partner with your ex.

How to come out of heart break

Alright, I said nothing works right? Only one thing works, TIME! Time is the only number one healer of severe heart break. Give your self time, you will be healed. Cry if you want to, allow your body to pour out that river of tears, with time, you will stop crying. You may love to read How to satisfy your partner

Another magical solution is DISTANCE. Distance does wonders here too. Move away if you can. Relocate if possible to another place. I have heard of people who relocated to another country when they suffered heart break. They are not foolish. They just did what they needed to get done. It is more than a year since I came out of that mess. Guess what! I'm far better now. To me, relationship, including marriage is a game, you can win or it goes the other way round. Which ever way, you stand to learn something.  Destiny has a great role to play in relationship too. I'm sure, this is my first relationship post after one year plus. :)

How will you know when you are out of the heart break?

Simple: you will know within your self. You will feel better and can attest you are better. You know you can never lie to your self. :P

What you should never do after a heart break massacre

Never ever suffer another person because you suffered a heart break. You are only complicating things for your self. Think about it; it just doesn't make any sense.  

Thanks for reading.